Monthly Archives: June 2012

Armchair BEA: Blogging Tips, Blogging Dreams

Don’t forget to enter my giveaway to win one of two copies of The Letter Q AND an “It Gets Better” t-shirt! 

I am not the person to go to for blogging advice, especially since I just returned from a five+ month unintended break from blogging. Despite running Bonjour, Cass! for about three years now, I have less posts published than some bloggers who have been posting for a year. I am so far from being prolific that one could call me antilific. (I made that word up. Very creative, I know.)

In my dream world version of my blog, I –

  1. have a co-writer? Or at least someone who wants to read books with me and talk about them and talk through posts, especially when I am incapable of typing anything;
  2. post at least two reviews a week;
  3. have more vlogs, since the few I’ve made amuse me and it’s easier to talk about books than write about them sometimes;
  4. make a gazillion dollars a day and quit my day job.

I think some of these could actually happen, especially number 4. Do you have any magical tips for making all my dreams come true?

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Armchair BEA: Beyond the Blog

Don’t forget to enter my giveaway to win one of two copies of The Letter Q AND an “It Gets Better” t-shirt! 

Has blogging opened up opportunities for you beyond getting free, advance copies of new books? Has it helped you get offers to write or review elsewhere (maybe even for pay)? Have you gotten invites to special events or places you might not have been to otherwise? Today, we’d like you to talk about those opportunities[...]

Here’s a list of perks I’ve enjoyed as a book blogger (I love lists, what can I say):

  1. Last year at BEA I got to shake hands with my platonic boyfriend Jimmy Fallon and he was all Jimmy Fallon about it (that is to say, adorable);
  2. I have been able to dream about discussing my book blog with my high school English teacher and have her give me a pat on the back;
  3. Sometimes Amy and I have real-life BOOK BLOGGING ADVENTURES ranging from fun to ABSOLUTELY TERRIFYING AND NO YOU DO NOT GET ANY FURTHER DETAILS;
  4. By reading the blogs other other book lovers I’ve been reassured that I am not the only person in the world who is made completely content by the smell of new books;
  5. It’s super easy to keep up with Book World News and discuss such things with relatives and friends who work in bookstores;
  6. On a related note, being able to discuss books I haven’t read but have heard about is incredibly easy and makes small talk at parties that much easier;
  7. The folks who read my blog tend to have an encouraging overlap of love for books and cats, so sometimes I can post pictures of cats without writing about books and everyone is happy;
  8. Librarians are consistently confounded by the number of books I a) check out of the library and b) manage to read;
  9. Rick Perlstein and I once carried on a Twitter conversation about Nixon, a conversation of such nerdy proportion that it makes me smile just thinking about it;
  10. THIS ONE TIME I PARTICIPATED IN A BLOG TOUR AND THEN THE AUTHOR OF MY FAVORITE BOOK OF ALL TIME/PERSONAL HERO EMAILED ME ON CHRISTMAS DAY AND IT WAS THE BEST CHRISTMAS EVER THE END

As a side note, to anyone who has never attending BEA in New York: you think your feet won’t hurt as much as everyone else says their’s do, but I assure you THEY WILL HURT FOUR THOUSAND TIMES WORSE.

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Review & Giveaway: The Letter Q edited by Sarah Moon

The Letter Q: Queer Writers’ Notes to Their Younger Selves
Edited by Sarah Moon with contributing editor James Lecesne
Published 2012 by Arthur A. Levine Books (imprint of Scholastic)
Hardcover received for review from the publisher
Read May 2012
281 pages

Summary From Publisher: In this anthology, sixty-four award-winning authors and illustrators such as Michael Cunningham, Amy Bloom, Jacqueline, Woodson, Terrence McNally, Gregory Maguire, David Levithan, and Armistead Maupin, make imaginative journeys into their pasts, telling their younger selves what they would have liked to know then about their lives as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender people. Through stories, in pictures, with bracing honesty, these are words of love, messages of understanding, reasons to hold on for the better future ahead. They will tell you things about your favorite authors that you never knew before. And they will tell you about yourself.

Sixty four LGBT writers contributed to this anthology! If that doesn’t help you realize that We Are Everywhere, I don’t know what will.

If someone were to write a heartbreaking YA novel about me, they’d set it in my sixteenth year, the year my mother died and I started realizing I might be gay and Everything Changed Forever. So maybe it’s a little understandable when I tell you that the idea of writing to my sixteen year-old self is overwhelming. Oh, to swoop in on teenage me and let her know she makes it out of that terrible house, that terrible town, finds love, and spends her spare time writing a book blog and “entertaining” friends with Nixon facts.

As an adult, reading The Letter Q was more a thought experiment into what I’d say to teenage me than the stated intent of an anthology marketed to teens to remind them that, well, it gets better.  I certainly can’t argue with that message.

I do have to point out that although the summary and the jacket copy mention that the authors are “telling their younger selves what they would have liked to know then about their lives as lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender people,” not a single contributor overtly mentions their experience as a trans person.

At its best, The Letter Q is an excellent companion anthology to Dan Savage and Terry Miller’s It Gets Better, and for those of us who are no longer teenagers, it’s a great mental exercise in “how could I help my teenage self?”

“How are you going to mail a letter to twenty years ago?” she said.
“I don’t know, ” I told her, finishing the sentence on the page. “But wouldn’t it be terrible, the day comes we learn how to ship something back in time, and we’ve got nothing to send? So first I thought I’d get the package ready. Next I’ll worry about the postage.”
How many times had I said to myself, it’s too bad I didn’t know this at age ten, if only I had learned that at twelve, what a waste to understand, twenty years late!
–p 24, The Bridge Across Forever by Richard Bach

Okay, I admit, Richard Bach has absolutely no connection to The Letter Q other than the coincidental circumstance wherein I am reading The Bridge Across Forever and I came across this quote and it seemed fitting.

Favorite Quote (From The Letter Q this time): 

You see, love doesn’t end despair. It deepens the poignancy of it by opening your eyes to what there is to lose. — p. 59, Adam Haslett

Grade: B-

Suggested further reading:  It Gets Better edited by Dan Savage and Terry Miller; How Beautiful the Ordinary: Twelve Stories of Identity edited by Michael Cart; Am I Blue? Coming Out From the Silence edited by Marion Dane Bauer

Giveaway!

Scholastic has kindly offered to give two people copies of The Letter Q and an “It Gets Better” t-shirt beneffiting the It Gets Better ProjectTo enter, just fill out this Google form. Winners will be announced June 10th! (Sorry, this giveaway is U.S. only.)

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The Case of the Missing Blogger AND May Round-Up

Well hello there friends! Remember me? Cass, the blogger?  I seem to have been gone for a biiiit longer than I had originally intended. You see, at first it was just a bit of  my legendary (I didn’t put quotes around that so I could feel better about myself) writer’s block (ie I stared at a blank wordpress new post screen for minutes at a time before going on over to Facebook), but THEN…well, I met this girl, you see, and not only did I fall in love and not manage to read a single book in March, I also apparently stopped being able to write short sentences like a reasonable person.

You don’t really want me to get all gushy and brag about my love life though. Lets talk about books, shall we? You can tell I’m back on track because I read 19 books in May, the most of any month this year.

 

Total Books Read: 19
Audio: 12
Print: 5
E-Book: 2

Fiction — 10

  1. Half Blood Blues by Esi Edugyan: I received this book from my Holiday Swap Secret Santa way back in December, which was particularly nice because it was not yet out in the U.S. and I very desperately wanted to read it. I got kind of distracted, though, and finally ended up reading it because–okay, this is bad–I have the mass market paperback edition and it was light enough to carry in my purse. It’s kind of horrible that physical weight was what finally got me to read Half Blood Blues, because I loved everything about it and I was so excited to read such a beautiful, original novel that I may have done a bit of a dance? In front of my boss? Who then may have read the book and also loved it? We bonded, let’s just say that.
  2. The Harder She Comes: Butch Femme Erotica edited by D.L. King: …I don’t talk about these books on my blog.
  3. Dead Connection (Ellie Hatcher #1) by Alafair Burke (audio): I have a weakness for detective series, and I’m really intrigued by Ellie Hatcher because she’s a competent, witty lady detective who isn’t man obsessed! I do declare it is a mystery series miracle.
  4. Bottle Rocket Hearts by Zoe Whittall: I’m not going to make any promises that I could very likely end up breaking, but this book deserves its own post because it’s brilliant and beautiful and I wish I could read it for the first time all over again.
  5. The Family Corleone by Edward Falco (audio): I’m a sucker for The Godfather, both the movie and the novel, so I gave this new installment in the Corleone family saga a chance. The prose was terrible, the story line snooze worthy, and I would never have finished it if I didn’t need to be entertained at work or if it hadn’t featured characters I already cared about.
  6. The Beginner’s Goodbye by Anne Tyler (audio): A tidy little novel I actually took notes while listening to so I could review it. I know, you don’t even know who I am anymore.
  7. Veronika Decides to Die by Paulo Coelho (ebook): I’m kind of in love with Paulo Coelho and I don’t want to talk about it.
  8. It by Stephen King (audio): I love listening to King’s novels on audio because there are always great narrators who really perform the stories. The unfortunate side effect of listening to the audio book in public was that sometimes strangers would talk to me, once an old lady, and I jumped about five feet in the air. Thanks, Mr. King.
  9. Taft 2012 by Jason Heller: My love for presidents is overwhelming and if anyone was going to enjoy this book, it was me. I was not really impressed, but I did appreciate the intention.
  10. Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit by Jeanette Winterson (ebook): I feel guilty for not really loving this classic novel. Anyone want to make the case for it to me?

Non-Fiction — 9

  1. Care To Make Love In That Gross Little Space Between Cars?: A Believer Book of Advice edited by Eric Spitznagel (audio): Fun, I guess, but insubstantial.
  2. Island Of Vice: Theodore Roosevelt’s Doomed Quest To Clean Up Sin Loving New York by Richard Zacks (audio): I’ve always resisted reading about the 26th president, but I gave in and I’m super glad I did.
  3. The Mormon People: The Making of an American Faith by Matthew Bowman (audio): Very dry. Very, very dry.
  4. The President and the Assassin: McKinley, Terror, and Empire at the Dawn of the American Century  by Scott Miller (audio): Two books about (well kind of) Teddy Roosevelt in one month! I know! There was a lot of historical detail and explanation of early 20th century America and I loved every minute of it. I’m so predictable (I accidentally typed “presidential” first, just so you know).
  5. This Republic of Suffering: Death and the American Civil War by Drew Gilpin Faust (audio): A collection of essays about, well, death during the Civil War. I loved every minute of it because I am a nerd.
  6. The Forever War by Dexter Filkins (audio): Great essays from a New York Times reporter about the war in Iraq. I…loved every minute of it because I am a nerd.
  7. The Presidents Club: Inside the World’s Most Exclusive Fraternity by Nancy Gibbs & Michael Duffy (audio): This book was made for me
  8. The Letter Q: Queer Writers’ Notes to their Younger Selves edited by Sarah Moon: Post (and giveaway) coming tomorrow! For real!
  9. Killing Yourself to Live: 85% of a True Story by Chuck Klosterman (audio): Klosterman is such a dude.

While I will not be attending BEA in NYC this year, I WILL be participating in Armchair BEA for the first time! So that’s exciting. I’ll be around, friends.

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